TO PAMPER...OR NOT??

They say the way to a man's heart is by food
by which he'll, to his partner, remain always good
as something for his stomach has been prepare(d)
it is more enough as thats what they care.

But from eons ago, has always puzzled diffrent men
as what are those that they have to do to please women.
Each woman had something in her that used to vary
and giving it a thought itself was something scary.

With no intention of raising any sort of dispute
i write on something,that for women, may not suit
as i vehemently feel whether what all we do or shower
on our women, will it help in being with us forever.

Earlier it used to be that it was all done as a need
and it was accepted devoid of any sort of greed.
These days,apart from being, to catch the other's attention
it is commercial and as though one is trying for retention.

The female folk of today seem to raise a cry and hue
that too without any purpose or any sort of clue.
It could be for taking them to a place for a date
or being in their terms,doing something out of date.

All day,to men they can think, missed calls to give
within the TAT, the call doesnt come,not ready to forgive
as they want their guys to work less and about them think
even while work they dont have time for eyes to blink.

Well, someone wise discovered a magical key
that to keep a gal happy,give her the best "chockie".
Few still went to the extent of gifting a teddy bear
which apparently, more than the person,got the care!!

All these makes look trivial all the sacrifice
one is supposed to do if to be called wise.
It looks like none of us sit back and wonder
whether all this is called for or just a blunder.

Well,the isnt whether pampering is right or wrong
as people who indulge in it will do it to whom they belong.
The reality is that none cannot think to resist
as in isolation, apparently, one cannot exist.